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Survivalists just daydreaming Men?
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1] Why are there no women actually reading Survivalist novels or participating in Survivalist website forums since tee-vee pretends they are interested: Attachment 21911 2] Why are Survivalist novels always depicting the guy with a hoard ending up with a woman who otherwise does not exist: Attachment 21912 Finally, since women now enjoy their own careers/incomes, is being a "good provider" even valued in the dating/mating game anymore? Isn't The Voice Of Reason's sardonic post a reality check? :getdown: <<< my point: a guy who is a good dancer in the real world prevails unless the economy collapses. |
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I'm not sure why any of this needs to revolve around women. But let's break down those comments in a different order:
1] Why are there no women actually reading Survivalist novels or participating in Survivalist website forums since tee-vee pretends they are interested: Women have just been empowered by the feminist movement. Survivalism is their worst nightmare and so they would rather not think about it. But that TV show lets them and metrosexual men pretend they could make it. since women now enjoy their own careers/incomes, is being a "good provider" even valued in the dating/mating game anymore? In a survival situation - the breakdown of economies, possibly a major war or nuclear attack, this will matter very little. She can keep track of the food I provide. 2] Why are Survivalist novels always depicting the guy with a hoard ending up with a woman who otherwise does not exist: She might not be the best looking in real life but if she's an accountant and hungry and TSHTF she'll be happy to see me. And If I'm desperate enough and unmarried, I might let her stay for a while. But really - why worry about what women think when it comes to survival prep? Do you go camping and let your wife set up the tent? What about start the fire? Some women can do it but most will not have a clue. And by women I mean ladies and your average metrosexual guy. Not that there's anything wrong with that. |
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Dunno, not to bust on Voice Of Reason or anything, but a lot of that smacks of cultural binge and purge.
On one hand you have the notion that an awful husband and father or terrible wife and mother has the right to usurp that which you have laid up for yourself and your family. Socialist/communist propaganda, force fed and regurgitated. On the other hand you have a sarcastic look at overly-militant survivalists and overly-enthusiastic investors. If there's anything to be learned here at all it is to avoid propaganda and consider your plans carefully. I fortunately evolved from backpack survivalist to bug-in-er to finally homesteader so survivalism isn't a daydream for me anymore, it is just simple everyday life. I am getting ever closer to self sufficiency in real, useful everyday practical ways. There are plenty of women posting all the time to survivalist groups, they are just typically more interested in the feminine aspects of survivalism that may currently not be on your survival-radar. Go to homesteading or gardening websites sometime, for instance. Or those that center around skills like herbalism, candle or soapmaking, weaving, knitting, all sorts of real, practical survivalist skills. The number of women interested in buying a gun and socking away some food and water is comparatively less. Actually, those kinds of ideas are really very simplistic survivalist preps, entry-level kinds of things. Renewability and sustainability are more advanced survival concepts and women have an advantage here as they have cultural and genetic imperatives that predispose them to ideas like creation and nurture. It is the healthy and natural role of a man to be a protector and provider, regardless of whether it is needed or not. I wouldn't hold much esteem for any man who was incapable of rendering these traditional male services. Stories where the survivalist gets the woman who wouldn't be able to exist without him are hamfisted and possibly subconcious attempts to tap into this primeval drive. While being a good husband and father are extremely important to me(and therefore implicitly being a protector and provider), in practical terms a woman who would have no chance of surviving on her own is of no interest to me, regardless of her physical appearance. If for no other reason than her questionable breeding and poor spirit. I played the dating/mating game for a long time, I thought I had it figured out on many different occasions with wildly varrying theories. At one point I even concluded the game was rigged. Eventually when my data set was large enough I realized that there is no such monolith as the dating/mating scene, it's really just a whole lot of individuals trying to make their way through life. After that realization I was able to find a really awesome chick and I married her. She's all into this survival stuff. I just bought a bigger gun without telling her first. I explained it was because I felt I needed a better weapon with which to defend ourselves, just in case. She was cool with that. OTOH I've dated women who were uncomfortable with the fact that I was a boxer because they associated my sport/martial art to pure, unrefined, indiscriminate violence. The only factor in dating/mating is be yourself and keep trying till you find someone who likes who and what you are. Some women like traditional men, others like bizarre yuppie metrosexuals, still others like complete losers. If you only look in bars you'll only find drinkers, etc. It's a ying/yang thing. Any given attribute you may be trying to gauge or sell is worth only what the person you're asking thinks its worth. Maybe it's more of a physics thing... is the cat in the box dead or alive? |
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:eek: On the eve of Y2K I had many friends who ignored the safety of their family...mainly dumbed down macho types who had one day's supply of food in their refrigerator and a weeks supply of breath mints as backup rations.
No food,no weapons,no ammo,no batteries,no anything but a huge mortgage and an arrogant attitude towards anyone who thought the Empire of Debt could collapse for any reason. Fast forward to 2006 >>>> Nothing has changed. Survival mode was beaten out of most all American females about the same time The Beatles first set foot in America...it became an archaic concept to find a mate who could provide protection and common sense in favor of the guy with the coolest hair and the biggest dork. Survival talk will only send them screaming for Oprah and American Idol to shut out the reality that they made a bad choice and someone might call in the chips and demand accountability for their stupidity. I see no mystery in the lack of female participation in survival discussions. It's a alien concept to even imagine the Empire might fall... Sorry girls...I only got enough food to last my family for a couple of years... Go tell your husband Mr.Wonderful he's going to have to skip that pedicure next week...Bed,Bath and Beyond has now became a hardware store. So sorry,,,your cable service has been disconnected for past unpaid balance of $300.00 :D:D:D:D |
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:D Survival mode 2006 camo? |
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:D Dude...what kind of matching underwear goes with that outfit ?
Need to get the wife a couple of those for covert emergency trips to trade a couple of silver rounds for a Lexus SUV... :banana::banana::banana: :D:D:D:D:D:D |
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1) "No" women???? I beg your pardon! Women do participate in survivalist Websites and read survivalist novels. Exhibit A: Me. There's also at least one female survivalist forum out there.
There don't seem to be as many females on the survivalist forums as men nor as many women reading the novels. Yet, the majority of the hardcore survivalists I know in person are women. Many of the others are gay males. When I've gone to survivalist-oriented classes and workshops, there are usually nearly as many women as men, and the women are usually there alone, not as a ladies auxillary to their husbands. Anyway, few of the survivalists I personally know frequent survivalist forums. There are probably a number of reasons for that. The first is that their exposure to the term "survivalist" was likely through a media that portrays survivalists as camo-clad, gun-toting males. Most women don't identify with that image and wouldn't be drawn to investigate those forums. The gay male survivalists I know would assume those forums would be hostile environments for them (and they're correct) and would avoid them. Another reason is that food storage, protecting and providing healthcare for their families, etc., has long been part of what women do in everyday life. I think they have a more pragmatic view about it. It's not a big enough deal to seek out an Internet community to talk about it. Finally, males don't have much respect for women, and they don't really value them. Most women are going to avoid places that cater to males because they just don't want to hear the BS. Those of us who do stick around are usually pretty thick-skinned and easy-going. 2) Haha! Male novels tend to have the same kinds of characters: A male who always has some top-secret black ops experience in his background that is never really explained but allows him to out-macho all the other men and conquer every obstacle. Then there's the woman: Always tall, leggy, slender, with a flat belly, and always accomplished in ways the book makes clear are unusual for a female. Tomboyish but not mannish. At some point she'll have to get rescued because even though she's better than other men, she's not better than the hero. In other words, females write female fantasies. Males write male fantasies. I could write a survivalist novel from a female perspective, but since the perceived audience for this type of novel is male, I doubt I could find a publisher. At any rate, when women write their novels, they tend to follow an equation, too: Amazingly spunky, clever, and tough female kicks male butt and wins mysterious strong but sensitive male. Better yet, they win a couple of males. 3) Not really. Most women just want a male who will hold up his end of the family responsibilities, not just financially, but also including household chores and childcare duties. |
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QWAK,Maddie,You got your head on strate and act together I injoy reading your posts! You rock!!:yippee:
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I don't think these suvivalist are just dreaming. I think they have a better understanding of freedom than many in the U.S.
The Rastafas living on the beach in Tobago are friendly and skinny. Man. Da Man only smokes ganja for lunch... |
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:wavey: Thanks for your thoughtful post Maddie! |
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:eek: Only in the tropics Curtman ......:D:D:D:D
Wonder how those Rasta dudes would make out in Montana ? About like the Costa Rican Olympic Bobsled Team maybe ? They not be jammin' mon.... :banana::banana::banana::banana::banana::eek::eek: :eek::eek: Good Post Maddie...nice to know a few smart women haven't totally lost it... I agree with the fashion statement terminology...survival mentality is a state of mind over media brainwashing...sounds like you found the White Rabbit. Right on.... |
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:eek: I went back and studied the pic with a magnifying glass Curtman.
That is most definitely Our Keef in the hammock,now that you mention it. :D:D:D:D:D He's been posting on GIM by cellular internet from Barbados...the lucky dog. Now we have proof... !!!! Looks like a cave or more likely a hidden bunker entrance behind the dude with the Hog Leg reefer... :eek::eek::eek::eek: |
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However, most of the "survival/preparedness" types I commonly encounter these days spend huge amounts of time, energy, and money trying to plan for, equip for, train for, and be set for every possible scenario the imagination can conjur up, to the point of dedicated fanaticism. It's as if they're salivating foam over the prospect of a Mad Max-type of future where they can grab their AR and "go into action." The types I'm talking about are the ones who spend days and weeks studying expounding on how to build a Faraday Cage and rehearsing "tactical scenarios" they plan to encounter, as if they could somehow lock horns with the NWO and not only survive it but come out on top. You will know them from their blogs and websites, a number of which make warped and apostate use of the Bible to rationalize their mentality. To me this crowd gives off a real Jim Jones type of vibe and to be candid, I find them extraordinarily creepy. They scare me. |
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Coming from a family of farmers, butchers, and tradesmen... all of this is in my blood. IMHO, this is how we were supposed to live. Not in artificial cages or dark dungeons either in the OWO, NWO or after the SHTF. |
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i dont see a shtf happening..jmo..time will tell. dont mean to burst any bubbles though..keep preppin L &G's..keep preppin!:bandito:
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"Out of chaos will come a new world order" - I DO believe TSWHTF, the biggest question is for how long. For those in NY on 9/11 - it did for the day, but I'm convinced that it will happen again on a bigger scale, and when it does, the dark lords will be ready to save us from ourselves...they're training while we sleep.
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After all the humiliation that Y2K guys suffered since, I think that they will be entitled to a little "I told you so" pay-back attitude WTSHTF. Fact is...they were mocked and there will come a day when a "good provider" is suddenly highly valued. I'm not feeling as altruistic as before and wonder why. I still don't have this figured out and that is why this thread is open-ended. :smokin: why hasn't H7 fled Los Angeles yet? |
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You aren't finding women survivalists because you're looking for them in the wrong places.
(Broad generalization ALERT!) Look For Homesteading sites and groups. Raising animals, milking goats, spinning yarn, midwifery, herbalism, gardening-the home front, if you will. If anything, women are much more involved with the lifestyle of survivalism. Continuity versus distinct events. As I said, a generalization. |
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:D KG :
It's not so hard to visualize Joe and Jane Six Pack going absolutely bananas when they lose their jobs,Walmart,Blockbuster,and the local Pizza Hut because that's their life in micro.Take away the cable box,their transportation and Julio cutting their grass and carting off the garbage and you got two braindead individuals who have no clue how the rest of the world operates outside the borders of the Empire. Pleasantville has been written off as a casualty of war...welcome to The Bates Motel. Paradise Lost for the majority...salvation and opportunity for the few. Uh Oh...you chose the wrong door Jane...the penalty for losers is death by nightmare. This scenario will be SOP for the majority of so called modern families raised and educated in the Empire.The Empire stresses group think and specialization of labor...the two things a person with common sense avoids like the plague. You made an excellent point on some of us dreaming and hoping for a total meltdown...I can't say I look forward to it...but I actually could care less if it hit tomorrow. The status quo of the Empire is a trap...it reminds me of a tribe of cannibals fattening up their captives for a big party.The captives think the cannibals are morons but the captives are the main course and too busy watching Oprah to realize doom is waiting at sundown. Oh...you can scream,and stomp and spit...but they won't be changing it. Frank Zappa had it figured out 20 years ago...Flakes :D :D :D :D The irony will be the fact that in about a week after the meltdown they will realize Big Brother has cried havoc and let loose the dogs of war three blocks from their house and all they got for protection is a checkbook and three soccer balls. Will they suffer ? Bet your last FRN they will...imagine total chaos and panic on a coast to coast scale beyond your wildest nightmare. My parents grew up during the great depression and never forgot the horrors of hunger and poverty their entire lives. Both were lucky in a sense because their parents were farmers,they owned their own land and could survive very well even if 95% of the US citizenry had bit the big one. The education system glosses over that era of US history like it was a minor bump in the road for the Empire....it was not...but if you don't talk about it...it never happened. GIM is a small band of free thinkers who quite frankly lost all trust in the system and are aware of the dangers of group think and media brainwashing. Our attitudes and posts reflect a deep mistrust of any and all system related events because the system is flawed by design...or twisted to reflect the needs of the few who vote or lobby for laws to outweigh the needs of the millions. Paranoia or common sense ? You be the judge KG. Not many look for flaws...very few see them and take precautions. Mark this as a wakeup call to common sense and a slice of the big picture. Men,women,children makes no difference.Turn off the TV and think :>). Our elected politicians have sold us out and someone is going to get stuck with the bill... You get three guesses and if you lose....what's for dinner Mogambo ? :eek: :eek: :eek: |
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I do know those guys. I think they would say onto YOU, "Don't worry so much about the future, try to relax and take the bob marley tour": http://youtube.com/watch?v=XAB_5MpLdLQ Rasta's also believe that survival is a state of mind and "long as woman have cooter, she too will SURVIVE" See ya lads on the Island, mon... |
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:driver: wheeeeeeeee I'm debt freeeeeeeeee |
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QWAK,What people realy NEED is a PRATICAL SURVIVALIST SCHOOL not so much the how to shoot a gun sort of stuff but pratical stuff that they can do in their every day lives to help them to be better prepared for the changes that the coming economic catastrophy is going to bring.
BTW: (and this is a bit off topic) Wile THIS teacher most likely does NOT have a clue about SURVIVAL :confused:She is "TEACHER of the YEAR" and after seeing her I would like to sign up for some NIGHT CLASSES, just to brush up on my some of my TECHNIQUES!:hahaha: :haha: :haha: I also understand SHE grades on the CURVE so IF she did not KILL ME I just might pass her class with a decent?? (or indecent) GRADE! Either one would be OK with me and since I have been DEAD before I think it would be a GREAT way to go the next time! HA HA HA HE HE HE just being ME! http://fastvideosite.com/html/school...school-783.php (Hope that don't get me in trouble here!) It must just be my unconventional sence of humor! :banana: :hahaha: :getdown: the DUCK |
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Dang.....Hot for Teacher:banana:
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You're not in any trouble with me if that helps at all DUCK. :ARMS1:
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